Maintaining a relationship of any kind requires effort if we want to keep it strong for a long time, or even a lifetime. There are things we do that can damage it, and others that can strengthen it. That’s why we must be careful when we have someone around us who is worth fighting for and whom we don’t want to lose.
Every day, many relationships end in failure, and although sometimes the cause may be something very important, most of the time it is just for minor issues and with a little knowledge we can prevent it from breaking up.
You are wrong if you think it is only about sex, although it is a very important part and what I will talk about later, there are also other things that we should not overlook if we want our partner to stay by our side in love like the first day.
Although a man may be attracted to a perfect body and a beautiful face, there are other things that can really draw him in. And women almost always overlook these same things, focusing more on how they look on the outside. So don’t be surprised when a man leaves a pretty woman for someone who isn’t as physically attractive. These are the things I’ll tell you below that will keep him from letting you go.
Make it your best refuge and comfort in times of uncertainty.
Believe it or not, they have their fears and worries. Even if they seem strong, they have weaknesses and need someone to protect them. Listen to them without judging or blaming them for anything. Show your support, let them be honest with you, and you’ll see how they’ll share their feelings and let you get to know them deeply. This will truly make them fall in love with you like no one else.
Listen more than talk.
Women are categorized as those who never stop talking. And it’s true that we believe we’re the only ones with the right to do so, so he’ll never expect you to give him that spotlight. Believe me, staying silent often creates a certain mystery that makes you very attractive to the opposite sex. Let him talk while you listen carefully.
There are things they keep to themselves and don’t even confide in their friends. If you stop to listen to them in silence, those secrets of theirs could come out at any moment, and you’ll be the one who benefits the most from knowing them.
Not everything has to be so serious.
There are times when you should let the laughter, humor, and things that both of you find funny flow. Keep in mind that the time he spends with you is part of his happiness; it’s important to share his tastes, like his favorite food or movie. A man falls completely in love with a girl with a good sense of humor and a fun side. Remember, life is more enjoyable when you share laughter.
Loyalty is paramount.
I’m not just talking about fidelity, which of course is non-negotiable; without it, life as a couple isn’t possible, at least not in a healthy way. But loyalty is also about having his back when he’s not there and the vultures want to tear him apart, regardless of your presence. Talk about his positive qualities and stop anyone who wants to tarnish him in his absence.
Time alone.
This is something you should make the most of. Find out what he likes, but also show him what you like. This will make him realize that you can take the initiative too. Research relationship topics, including intimate things you could do together that could increase your satisfaction in bed. Remember, nothing is more tiring than routine, especially for them.
Believe me, if you get your way, he’ll think about you all day long, and you’ll want to get home as soon as possible to see what’s new for him. This will make you very attractive and awaken his desire for you to the highest level.
Always tell the truth.
It’s a bit difficult for men to express their feelings, which is why they look for a woman who can help them identify their emotions, who not only listens to them, but also helps them feel safe expressing them. They look for someone who will tell them the truth they often don’t want to hear. This will reassure them that honesty is a prevalent element in their relationship, and they will fall in love.
